Eric's
Version:
Before
Leandra and I graduated Eckerd in 1998 we knew we'd be apart for
at least a year. At that point we decided that we needed to have
a timeframe, an endpoint at which we would be in the same city
again and could actually date again. Otherwise, a long distance
relationship would be unfeasible.
Fast-forward a year. I applied to the University of Georgia Genetics
program, and was accepted Summer 1999. I moved down in August
and convinced Leandra to move down in October. Moving down was
a test of our relationship, and after that I knew I wanted to
marry her. Of course, I kept that to myself, and I had Leandra
thinking "eventually, in a few years, before Im 30."
After Christmas vacation I went ring shopping in Athens. I told
no one but the jeweler. Surprise was paramount.
The second half of the engagement was the harder part - where?
Since October I had been plotting a Florida vacation for early
spring during which I could surprise Leandra. Several times we
had to change plans and almost didn't go. I managed to convince
her to take a long weekend in March, then talked her into watching
a nearly nonexistent sunset on the sea wall at Eckerd. All the
plotting and planning was worth the look of absolute surprise
on her face!
I think we are both lucky that we've stuck together. We share
a lot of interests: wine, art, TV shows, music, movies - well
definitely make a great married couple.
Leandra's
version:
The
night he proposed to me was beautiful. We had missed the sunset
by minutes, but as we were standing out on the seawall, the wind
was blowing gently and being at Eckerd always brings back good
memories for me. He asked me if I wanted to grow old with him
and I said of course - because we always talk about things like
that...but when I turned around he was holding an open black box
with a ring inside. I think I stood there shocked for a few seconds
because it was such a complete surprise. But after a hug, (of
course) I said yes.
This
has actually been rather exciting for me even though I was never
one of those girls who has been planning her wedding since her
fifth birthday. I am confident that together we will make everything
work and the important thing is that everyone we love is here
to share in the happiness we have. the end.
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